Years ago, I lived in the seaside village of Otranto, Italy, and studied Italian at Porta d’Oriente, a school that advertised a half-day sea/half-day school approach to learning. Since then, I have dreamt of this region of Italy known as Salento.

It seems God has blessed this part of Italy with glorious treasures: turquoise water, rock cliffs, long stretches of natural beaches, and bleached-white buildings that make up the tiny villages that hang over the sea. This is all topped off with extraordinary southern hospitality, which its natives lavish on visitors.

I fell in love with the seemingly untouched beauty, the seafood, and the spice that I was missing in Tuscany. In Salento, I always have the sense that I’d traveled back in time to a 1950s Italian movie in which the streets are actually filled with Italians, and life is lived in a way that modern Americans believe is impossible.

The region

Salento is located at the tip of the heel of the boot that is Italy in the most southern part of Puglia. But not many people know about Salento, save typical southern Italian tourists whose families have been traveling to Salento’s shores every August for centuries. Many people associate south Italy, in general, with dirty streets and high crime, and think that there’s nothing worthwhile to see below Naples. But once you spend time in Salento, you begin to believe it’s actually the best part of Italy, even though it is isolated and indietro.

The difficulties of living there are apparent only to the nutcase strani­eri who decide to call Salento home. After dreaming of living there for years, I (aka American Nutcase), agreed to transfer to this backward paradise to set up my home base.

Confronting reality  

On vacation in Salento, it’s easy to let the practicalities of life, like work, drop by the wayside. But living there is different.     

I found a former cantina that had arched ceilings of stone and a marble staircase leading down to it from the street. I was attracted to its inherent charm, so I didn’t realize until I moved in that not only did my cell phone not receive a signal inside, but my computer’s new Italian wireless card didn’t work either.

I was told that a phone/internet line would take months to install and activate if it could even be done, so I was left to my own devices when it came to using my computer to access the Web. I immediately began to panic, experiencing withdrawals from my plugged-in life in the States and fearing the worst: complete isolation.

Attempting to be undaunted, I set out on my Metropolitan Lady bicycle every day, my computer in tow. I rode to coffee bars, restaurants, and friends’ homes and places of business to use my laptop and wireless card, much to the amusement and chagrin of the Salentini, who would say to me, “You are fixated. Stop the computer. Go to the sea!”

Rediscovering paradise

At the end of my rope with the constant comments and the nomadic computer life, I had the fortune to meet Francesco, a Salentino by birth who worked in Milan and was back in the area on vacation. He helped solve my Internet dilemma with a series of extension cords and wires leading to the one ground-level window in the cantina. He then felt it was his personal responsibility to restore my previous sense of wonder in Salento.

Finally, ready for a break, I agreed to accompany him, and we hit the road to the port of Otranto, where we bought tuna-and-pepperoncino sandwiches on olive rolls at the corner café, then took off on Francesco’s boat to Imperial Beach.

Almost hidden by the massive limestone rocks that surround it, Imperial Beach is accessible only by boat. Locals had parked their boat 30+meters from shore before they half-swam, half-waded to the beach, as we did, with our lunch and towels on top of our heads. The water was completely transparent, and the sun shone so brightly that the entire scene seemed as if it were a dream.

Francesco knew everyone on the beach, and they all greeted him with kisses and hugs and handshakes as if it had been a decade since the last time they had met. No, he assured me it had been only yesterday. But these people, like Francesco, had been coming to this beach for all of their lives.

Francesco ex­plained the history of Salento as we sat on the sand like 5-year-old children, half in and half out of the water as gentle waves lapped our legs. We ate our panini and drank cold coffee from plastic bottles that his beach family smilingly offered us.

Then Francesco led me back into the shallow sea to one of the giant rocks jutting out into the water. He put his hand inside a crack in one of the rocks and came out with what looked like slimy gray mud. He slapped it on his forehead and laughed when I jumped in shock.

He told me that the ancient mud purifies the skin and that people had come to these rocks and slathering on the argilla for centuries. I looked around and saw two children rubbing argilla on each other, and a group of teenage girls very seriously applying the mud to their thighs and stomachs.

When in Salento, I thought, do as the Salentini do, so I started to cake it on too. Then we strolled back and forth along the white sand in the ankle-deep water until the mud had caked, and we could finally dive into the sea, ascending slowly to the sunny surface thoroughly purified.

Every day for the rest of the summer, Francesco and I would head out to another part of Salento-to a beach, a museum, or a tiny hillside town. We ate pesce crudo every day, and although there was never a dull moment, we never came close to seeing or doing all the things that were possible in Salento.

A cultural mix

Salento is like no other place in Italy. The little towns on the coast seem like old-fashioned seaside paradises, each with its unique culture and history. Yes, it’s Italy, but it’s also a bit of Greece, Turkey, and what the Salentini call “Porta d’Oriente.”

Salento’s geographical location was perfect for invaders attacking from the sea, so there are remnants and ruins of lighthouses, bastions surrounding sea towns, castle walls, moats and towers dotting the coastline — reminders of the mostly unsuccessful attempts to protect its inhabitants. There are still parts of Salento where they speak Greek, and the bleached-white buildings stacked on hillsides certainly bring to mind that part of the world.

Each invasion and occupation left a mark on the region, creating a melting pot of cultures instead of one homogenous genetic stamp. And because the area is so lightly traveled by outsiders, you really feel that you are the first one to discover it all.

Lesson learned

There was so much to learn about and see here, yet I had squandered time stupidly toting a computer around for months. I had wasted so much time crying about the lack of efficiency that I had forgotten that I had chosen to live in a place that thrives on closing down for five hours in the middle of every day so everyone can go to the sea. I should have joined them.

I went to Salento with all of my American-ness and tried to make it fit me. But Salento doesn’t need to change; it needs to hang on to that which makes it unique. It was I who needed to adapt and embrace the rhythm of the place, to sort out what drew me there in the first place: I wanted to understand the way of life in a place like Salento, where the original Italian vita bella still exists. Miraculously, once I was purified, I realized it all.

By Layne Randolph, International Travel News © 2016 International Travel News. All Rights Reserved.